- Choose a username that has a sexy feeling. In a chatroom, women will first see your chat avatar or your Facebook name, that's why people try to have the sexy MSN names, even before you switch your cam on.
- Have an interesting profile on Facebook. Put pictures on it. Happy pictures, not the ones takes with your cam, where you are eating a hamburger in front of your gloomy computer screen, surrounded by beer cans. Pictures of the outside world. Showing you with your friends, preferably nice female friends, smiling and partying. The best are holiday pictures of some sunny vacation destination. This can give her some warm ideas. Would you start a chat with a girl that puts a gloomy picture in her profile?
- Build up progressively: Don't be heavily seducing from the start. They can throw you out quickly out of the chatterbox, or de-friend you from their Facebook account, with one click of the mouse...
- Try to be funny and witty. Women go on Facebook and chat rooms and chatterboxes to have fun. You can take the relaxed attitude as well. Once you have her interested, go to a free private chatroom.
- Ask questions. Women think they are funny. If they talk all the time, they will have the feeling that it was a *very* interesting chat. Follow her fantasies, not yours. Show interest in her.
- Try to know who is on the other side of the chatroll. Maybe that person who says being a naughty 22 year old women, is just a fat cigar smoking 50 year old dude ?
- Get yourself a free web cam from Creative or Logitech. There are quite cheap webcams available on eBay. These allow you to be more human in the chatroom. And if you show yourself, maybe she'll show herself through her webcam.
- Make use of the smilies to put emotion in the conversation. Know the chatroom rules, such as "brb" = be right back."c ya" = see you later. "lol" = laughing out loud. "rofl" = rolling on the floor laughing.
With these tips a chatroom or chatroll encounter could lead to some more real life dates. Chat rooms on Facebook can be a start, but the chances are much higher in the real world.